Welcome the player standing alone
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Welcome the Player Standing Alone
Make joining the group easier with a small, specific invitation.
When to use it
Use when someone is new, returning after an absence or unsure where to go.
Put It into Practice
- Approach without making the person the centre of attention. Say your name and ask whether they want help finding the right group.
- Offer a concrete option: a passing partner, a place in the warm-up or an introduction to the coach. Respect a no or a preference for space.
- Check back naturally later. Do not expect a thank-you or announce that you “helped the new person”; belonging should not create a debt.
What It Can Look Like
“We’re warming up over here. Want to join us?” is easier to answer than “Why are you standing alone?”
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Take it with you: A welcoming action gives someone a choice and a way in.