Practice a coach apology
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Practice a Coach Apology
Coaches will sometimes misread a situation, interrupt an athlete or speak too sharply. A clear apology shows responsibility without making the athlete manage the adult's feelings. Keep it specific and connect it to a change the athlete can observe.
When to use it
Use after a coaching mistake that affected an athlete or the group.
Put It into Practice
- Name the action you took and its impact without adding an excuse. If the mistake was public, consider an appropriate public acknowledgement while respecting private details.
- State what you will do differently. Give the athlete a chance to respond, but do not ask for immediate forgiveness or reassurance that everything is fine.
- Follow through at the next relevant moment. Ask a fellow coach to help you notice the pattern if it is recurring, and use formal procedures where the behaviour requires reporting.
What It Can Look Like
A coach wrongly blames an athlete for a rotation error, corrects the record and explains the task again more clearly.
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Take it with you: An apology gains meaning through the behaviour that follows it.