Make space for an athlete's changing goals
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Make Space for an Athlete'S Changing Goals
An athlete can enjoy a program while wanting something different from it than you expected. Listen for their current priorities before planning the next level.
When to use it
Use this at a natural break, such as midseason or before the next registration window.
Put It into Practice
- Ask what they want more of and less of in basketball; offer examples like friendship, challenge or flexibility without ranking those answers.
- Separate their preferences from your hopes on paper, then identify where both can fit within realistic program choices and household limits.
- Let the athlete choose one question to ask about the next option, and revisit the choice after they have new information.
What It Can Look Like
An athlete wants familiar teammates more than extra tournaments, so the family investigates a local development group before considering additional travel.
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Take it with you: A changed goal is useful information, not evidence that past effort was wasted or that ambition has disappeared.