Respond when friendship groups shift
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Respond When Friendship Groups Shift
Team friendships can change during a season. Help your athlete describe the experience without deciding that every changed seating choice means rejection or bullying.
When to use it
Use this when your athlete feels left out or a familiar friendship becomes less comfortable.
Put It into Practice
- Listen for specific events and ask how often they happen; avoid contacting other families impulsively or demanding a detailed account of every interaction.
- Explore one low-pressure connection the athlete wants to try, such as a different warm-up partner, while keeping existing friendships outside sport available.
- If exclusion is repeated, targeted or connected to harm, raise the concern through the program's appropriate process and agree on adult follow-up.
What It Can Look Like
An athlete who is no longer in a travel-room friendship group chooses a new practice partner; recurring insults are separately reported to the program lead.
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Take it with you: Take the experience seriously while matching your response to the pattern and keeping responsibility for protection with adults.